SUPERNATURAL THURSDAYS: 5 Ways Supernatural Has Changed Fans’ Lives

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We all know that Supernatural is an awesome TV show, but it’s more than that. To many fans, including me, it’s something that has had a lasting affect on their lives.

When I first thought of writing this article, I originally planned to do it based only on myself and all the positive ways that this series has changed my life. I didn’t think that there were that many people out there who could say (or would say) that a TV show had changed their lives too, but the more I looked around, the more I realized I was wrong. I started throwing the question out there to my friends as well as people I know from places like Facebook and Twitter and the results were overwhelming! So many people feel that this show has positively influenced their lives that I just had to include a lot more stories than my own.

It has influenced people’s choice in careers


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I am one of those people who is proud to say that this show has changed my life for the good and had a major hand in the career I have today. Just a few years ago I was working a corporate job behind a desk and dreaming of being a writer. Supernatural inspired me to write my first novel and though that one was never published, it was the catalyst for deciding to change careers.

This summer my life came full circle when I was lucky enough to represent Daemon’s TV at Comic Con where I got to interview casts and crews from my favorite shows, including Supernatural. It was truly a dream come true and though I haven’t met anyone else yet who has changed jobs because of the show, I’m sure I can’t be the only one out there.

Photo Credit: Michelle Carlbert

It has helped them to stay healthy
 

I’ve heard stories of people who have gotten ill or been injured in accidents who watched Supernatural during their recoveries and credit the series with bringing them back to health. In fact I have one friend (known as JamieRose89 to many fans) who deals with an illness on a daily basis and though it’s not always easy for her, she manages to keep her spirits up by watching the series.

I met Jamie at the first Los Angeles Supernatural convention held by Creation Entertainment and I, as well as many others, was very touched by her brave story. In fact word got back to Mr. Kripke who made her an awesome deal that if she kept fighting and stayed well, he would name a character after her on the show. The result was the lovely Jamie in the season 4 episode ‘Monster Movie’.

Photo Credit: Special thanks to JamieRose89 for permission to use her pics from Creation Entertainment’s Salute to Supernatural Convention

It has given them new friends
 

This is another point that also applies to me. Last year I discovered that I had so many friends that I met because of the series that I had to create our own group on Facebook. I did it just so we wouldn’t be yammering about Supernatural all over my personal page and annoying the rest of my friends and relatives who didn’t watch the show.

It seems like I am constantly picking up new friends because of Supernatural and I know I’m not alone. I hear stories from people all the time about how they have gained friendships because of the series.

Here’s a quote from a fan, JL:

“Where do I begin? I’ve met a lot of people, online and at conventions, some who are now dear friends. So yeah, a couple of ghost hunting brothers have made many improvements in my life!”

Here’s a quote from a fan, Amanda:

“One day I met my best friend at a con because we both really LOVE SUPERNATURAL and that was the reason we went, and we just became best friends over time. I have SUPERNATURAL to thank for that!!!”

Photo Credits: Sara Winchester, JamieRose89, Amanda

It has taught them that it’s okay to be themselves
 

This is another point that also applies to me. Watching this show and meeting the people that I’ve met has encouraged me to be the person that I always wanted to be. When you walk into the doors of a convention and see people dressed in rock t-shirts, sporting tattoos like the ones that the boys have on the show, there’s no doubt that the show has had an affect on them. I’m always happy when I hear that people not only act and dress like that at a convention, but do it in their real lives, too.

A quote from a fan, JL:

“Before [I found Supernatural], I just didn’t know where I fit in with all my little quirks of liking ghost stories and such”

A quote from a fan, Amanda:

“It helped me get out of my shell ’cause I wanted to talk about it to people, and it gave me my friends today!”

Photo Credits: Brian Rubin, Sara Winchester, JL

It has gotten them through some very tough times in their lives
 

One fan I know (known as Xenascully to many in the fandom) lost her brother earlier this year. Watching Supernatural was something that the two of them used to do together and it was that connection with the show that helped her get through the very tough days that came after his passing. In fact, there were even times that the show made her smile.

Here is an excerpt of a Thank You letter that Xenascully wrote to the cast of Supernatural:

“I got this notification sound for my cell phone (for whenever I received a text) [of] Dean yelling: ‘Son of a bitch!’ After [my brother's] passing, I can’t even describe how many times I ended up smiling, despite everything. [It went off once in front of the pastor who] pretended not to notice. [My brother] would’ve thought that was the funniest thing ever. And as many calls, texts, and emails I got that first few weeks, you can imagine how often it eventually lifted everyone’s spirit, even if just a little.”

Photo Credit: Special thanks to Xenascully for permission to use her pic from Creation Entertainment’s Salute to Supernatural Convention.

 

So there are just a few examples of the way this series has changed some people’s lives for the better. What about you folks? Has Supernatural changed your life? Sound off in the comments below and share your stories! I’d love to hear them.

If you are curious about what Supernatural Thursdays are all about, check out our introductory post on it and more articles here.

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  • http://twitter.com/ncislafanblog sindee

    wow… what a great article… though I’m not a Supernatural viewer I can totally relate to “getting influenced by a TV show”… starting with JAG many, many years ago it developed over NCIS and led me to where I am now in the NCIS:LA fandom… actually – when I think about it now – I can also say my career was influenced by my love for TV shows… but most importantly I made friends all over the world… people I never would have met otherwise… *blinks to Michelle* …suffering from a chronic disease *my show* also helps me over the rough times… I know most of my “real-life-childhood” friends don’t understand that but I can hardly live without my daily dose of it…
    CHEERS TO ALL THE FANS OUT THERE !!
    CU sindee

    • Supernatural Junkie

      Here is a personal invitation to you to watch Supernatural and become a member of our fandom. Watch from the beginning and you’ll understand why we are such a devoted bunch!

    • Anonymous

      Aw, thanks for reading! That means a lot from someone who doesn’t even watch the show….YET.  ;o)

      I join Supernatural Junkie in inviting you to watch the show. I really think you might like it. :o )

  • Supernatural Junkie

    You’re article really gets to the heart of the Supernatural fandom. I have to admit that I’m older than most fans. I’m a single mother and I have a 14 year old son. We watch the show together. I discovered SPN by accident. About 2 years ago I was laid off and unemployed for 6 months. As I was sitting at home having a major pity party, I flipped through the channels and landed on TNT. Bloody Mary was on. I’ve always like this genre of shows (Angel, Charmed, Moonlight). I enjoyed the story, but most of all I identified with Sam and his depression and guilt over Jessica’s death. His attempt to hide his feelings from Dean was exactly what I was doing with my family. Dean’s attempts to take care of him and pull his spirits up was the same thing my family was trying to do with me.

    We all watch the show for different reasons, but I think there are some common threads amongst the fans. First, we love the monsters of the week and the mythology. Who doesn’t cry at the end of heart and who didn’t laugh until their sides hurt at Bad Day at Black Rock? Second, if you look across the crowd at the conventions and notice that 95% of the audience is female, all you have to do is look up on the stage at those beautiful male specimens to understand why. Jensen’s rugged good looks and Jared’s tall, muscle bulging frame (and hair we’d all die to have) make it impossible to look away. But the thing that I think we all really admire is the obviously affectionate relationship that these two have. It seems to mirror the relationship of the brothers. Jared was asked at a convention earlier this year how he would like to be known. His answer was “genuine”. There is no better word that I can think of to describe these men. They take time with their fans, patiently answering questions and sharing stories from their lives (who can forget Jared’s train story?). There is a total lack of ego and that is refreshing. We feel like they are on our level – not superstars with egos so big that they won’t fit through a door.

    The bottom line is that this show is first and foremost about two brothers and their emotional journey through life, both together and individually. I think we all have identified with them at some time during our lives, the mistakes we’ve made, the things we regret, and the redemption and forgiveness we’ve sought. All I can say is “Thank You” to Jared, Jensen, and the entire Supernatural family for being much more than a TV show.

    • Anonymous

      Wow, thanks so much for your lovely comment. Loved everything you had to say. Yes, our fandom is indeed wonderful. 

  • Angel2205

    I lived in an abusive marriage for years. As I started watching SPN and saw Sam and Dean save each other again and again I started hoping there would be someone who would rescue me, too.Who could love me for what I am even if I was a freak in my husbands eyes.I stayed up most night just to not have to be near my now ex husband. I went online and searched for a SPN site and that was the night I met my now best friend :) She gave me hope and love and I was so happy again. Thanks to her I met other fans who are now my most dearest friends!! I love them so much! I am so lucky to have them…they gave me everything I needed to leave my living hell behind and now I am free. And I always say it, and I love to say it: that would have never happened without the SPN Crew!! I love them for that!! I love the show so much, it means so much to me..it changed my life and I love it how it is!  When I feel alone all I have to do is call my friends and we laugh about the funniest thing, talking about travelling to Vancouver to see the sets, conventions and I feel good! I like to say…not only Sam and Dean are hunting the demons in the show…they do it in real life too!!

    • Anonymous

      Thanks so much for sharing you story and I can’t agree more, Sam and Dean really do hunt down demons for some people in real life too. I know they’ve done it for me as well.  :o)

  • http://twitter.com/manz010 Mandy Dillon

    How has Supernatural changed my life?  Wow, is so many ways. I was a timid, single facebook newbie a couple of years ago. One day I timidly typed in a comment into facebook on a Supernatural page. I loved the show so much and thought I would join a page. Well two years down the track I have over 400 Supernatural friends, run or help run 5 pages. And I have met some of the best people in the world and even though we live in different parts of the world, I still class them as family. My Supernatural family. I am going through a tough time at the moment with a terminally ill mum and my friends are constantly there for me. We watch Supernatural together on-line, then rush to our chat room to discuss the episode. My life would be empty. Supernatural brought me together with the most magnificent fandom in the world. We fiercely love our show and each other. There is so other fandom like Supernatural fandom, we are fierce, loyal, loving and care for each. Just like Sam and Dean do :)

    • Anonymous

      I agree with everything you just said. Thanks for sharing your story! I’m continually amazed at what this show is doing for people. :o )

  • Maxjr92

    I love this article, I would love to meet people who like this show and have conventions in El Paso I never have gone to a convention because they are too far. This show always makes me laugh. 

    • Anonymous

      So glad you enjoyed the article and I hope you make it to a convention soon! Hopefully they’ll do one in Texas again and maybe that will be close enough for you. If you just buy day passes (and not all the fancy priced tickets) it’s not that expensive and still TONS of fun (trust me, I’ve done it myself and going with day passes is a blast). 

  • angeloflight

    I’m the one of many fans who met friends because of the show. We are so connected now, it’s overwhelming. Never thought I would’ve met people with whom I have so much in common, not only passion for Supernatural. They’re like a second family to me, now, thanks to our lovely show. Thank you for your article !

    • Anonymous

      “They’re like a second family to me” – That is so true and exactly how I feel as well. 

      Thanks for reading and commenting!  :o)

  • http://twitter.com/MsSheaffManaged Michèle Sheaff

    Well said, and right on. Both my young nephew and I are chronically ill, and I would tape Supernatural and we would watch it together at the hospital. (He loves horror movies and started watching even the scariest ones when he was about 8.) We both really needed the escape, and it captivated us so much we could forget about suffering for a little while–dragged us out of our miserable world and into Sam and Dean’s miserable world where they were doing the suffering instead of us ;) . He is doing much better after a bone-marrow transplant, I’m still hanging in there–and watching Supernatural. I guess that’s why I hate all the nitpicking and negativity and fanwank that sometimes happens in fandom–don’t burst my bubble, because I really need that bubble.

    • Anonymous

      Wow, what an amazing story. Thanks so much for sharing it with us all. Again, I’m very happy to see how this show has helped more people. :o )

  • Mackenzie

    Supernatural has had a lasting effect on not only me, but my siblings as well, and by default my mother (who never watches shows). My sister and I liken ourselves to have the same relationship as Sam and Dean, we would go to hell and back again if we could to save each other. My big brother has been influenced the most by it. Watching Supernatural one day sitting next to him, he admitted to me that most of his wardrobe was inspired by Dean, his favourite shirt looks like one Dean wears etc. I hadn’t realized how much the show inspired him, he’s even chosen to go into Social Service work to help out as many people as he can, because that’s what Dean does. It’s obvious how much it has effected him, and he is more confident and outgoing than he was a year ago simply because he believes the leather jacket he wears sometimes is good luck, cause it’s like Deans. :P

    Personally I imaitate people who I idolize and tend to pick up on traits I like and try to stick to them. I don’t know how much of my person is made up of all the crazy cute people out there on TV that I like but thier morals stick, and make me who I am. At one point I was too shy to do anything, or say anything, or even follow my whims. I started to buck up, and be inspired by the stories on TV. They may not be real in every sense of the word but why not try to be more like them? More like someone who wants to help everyone, who cares even if they don’t know you, who’ll dive into the worst imaginable waters in order to pull you out? So, I did, and I sure as hell wouldn’t have gone to that Supernatural convention, or on the Misha Collins cruise, if I hadn’t of thought. Why not change to be more like the people I idolize?

    Now I’m done prattling about myself, I’ll trundle off to create something spectacular!

    • Anonymous

      “At one point I was too shy to do anything, or say anything, or even follow my whims. I started to buck up, and be inspired by the stories on TV. ”
      Yes! Love that. I did that too and I love how you’ve been inspired to do things you normally wouldn’t. That is awesome!Good luck on creating something spectacular! 

  • http://www.facebook.com/Tawrens Karen Kaiser

    Yep for one I’d nearly given up on watching tv because most of it is T&A jiggle wiggle fluff which I liken to porno. Just enough plot and dialogue until it can get to the sex. Another I’ve found myself saying dude and mention regularly bits from the show. I have a neighbor who doesn’t watch tv and I loaned him SN season 1 only to have him ask if I had anymore. He who didn’t watch anything but dvd’s & was quickly addicted. My heart stopped in jan and I ended up in the hospital til may going through a great deal of pain and rehab so I looked forward to the show even if I did miss a couple of eps by falling asleep before or during due to exhaustion. I suffered from boredom of seeing the same 4 walls except for rehab and it helped ease the boredom to occupy my mind. I didn’t want to watch because I figured it was sex & gore but found myself wanting to watch tv so I figured Ackles could act & was good looking. I was pleased to see a show that didn’t treat viewers like moreons employed by the networks but with respect. Kripke understands subtle and shows respect for viewers. CW talks about loving the show but barely ever advertises it. Thankfully the fans keep it going by refusing to have reaper replace even it’s reruns and winning the TV guide cover. I think it’s rude of TVG while holding it’s current cover contest post that Supernatural wasn’t eligible which they posted after getting so many SN votes. I voted for SN regardless.

  • Maddi

    ….wow! That actually had me tearing up! lol ….
    So here’s my turn to write an essay :P ….

    Where do I begin? … Supernatural has helped me, and still is helping me in lots of ways, some small and some big. Simply loving a show this much and really connecting with the story has made me so happy and given me something to go crazy about! :)

    I suffered from depression for a few years in my early teens, and have recently found myself getting those same old feelings again, now I’m stressed out about my A-levels. I’ve always found it beautiful and really helpful to have a world I can escape into, and recently that’s been Supernatural. From the moment I first started to when I caught up, I’ve always really enjoyed watching it and being a part of the fandom. And any cast video, especially ones from the SPN cons ALWAYS make me laugh, no matter how crappy I’m feeling!

    And yes, I know they’re fictional characters, and it’s just a story … but watching them pull through all they have done inspires me, reassures me that I will get through eventually. Because in real life people lose their fathers, and their girlfriends die, and they have huge burdens and responsibilities to bear. But they get through it too…. which really reassures me that, eventually, I will get through.

    And the messages the show gets across are so true! Who says it better than Chuck at the end of Swan Song? In the end it’s not about the demons or angels or monsters, it’s about family. The times when Dean and Sam pull through something really hard, it’s because they lean on each other! That just reminds me, when I need reminding, to turn to my loved ones when I’m struggling.

    I started watching it a few months ago, and me and my sister watched it together, before she left home. Just sitting down in an evening to watch SPN gave us some really good time together which we both enjoyed. And yes, we did bond that little bit more because of our nerdy love for Supernatural! :P Supernatural gives me Jo feelings :) lol :P

    It has also introduced me to some awesome songs and broadened both my music and car tastes! :P lol

    Also – I want to be an actress. I’ve no idea how I’m going to do it, or even if I have the talent, but the cast, especially Jensen, inspire me so much! They’re all amazing and watching them work or hearing them talk about how they work and what goes on is not only really fascinating for me, but also really REALLY inspiring.
    They are brilliant role models for my future career (if I do make it, that is!) – they’re VERY appreciative of their fans, funny, close to their co-workers, very talented, very hard working, but also know how to have a lot of fun, and they are very down to earth :)

    What can I say? There are a million reasons why I treasure this show above all others, despite being so new to it. These are a just a few … ;)

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