PRIVATE PRACTICE “To Change the Things I Can” (Season Finale) Review

PRIVATE PRACTICE "To Change the Things I Can"

PRIVATE PRACTICE “To Change the Things I Can” Season 4, Episode 23 (Season Finale) – Naturally, because it was the season finale, a lot of things happened this episode. Rather than start with the big, jaw dropping very last moment, I have to start with the thing (and person) that bothers me most. Violet. What on earth are the writers doing to this character? They have made her a complete and utter mess. Neurotic through and through and almost scatterbrained and without feeling. I get it. She went through a horrific ordeal. That accounts for why she left Lucas and Pete the first time. But hasn’t she moved past that? Yes, now she is under investigation as is the practice, but again it is part her doing because of her book. Now she uses that as a weak reason to leave again. I know it is supposedly only for a few weeks, but she is leaving her child and it is against Pete’s wishes. Is she so blind she could not see what that was doing to him? He looked awful. As for the last scene, maybe his heart attack was a long time coming and then with the added stress of the procedure that did not go well on that little girl, that was the day. However, it is going to be hard for me to believe that Violet’s conduct did not play a large part as well.

Let’s talk about that little girl for a moment. I love how the doctors try every avenue to help their patients, but isn’t part of their deal to do what is best for the patient? I feel as if they lost sight of that in that case. At first, two additional years of life sounds like it is in her best interest, but then you look at the toll it is taking on her parents and even her and you wonder if she shouldn’t just be able to live her life out as it is. All she wanted was to go home to her own bed. Now she is practically comatose and it is to the point that the father is asking Cooper to help euthanize her. What a disaster.

Speaking of disasters, enter Amelia. She has been blowing off Charlotte’s requests, and at times pleas, to go to a meeting. Now she is back to drinking. Not only drinking, but drinking and cutting. Yes, she performed surgery after drinking, but don’t worry, she wasn’t drunk. Don’t all alcoholics think that all the time? At least Charlotte had the good sense to revoke her hospital privileges, but as the last scene with her was in a bar playing pool and drunk, it does not appear that she will be attending a meeting anytime soon. I guess we can look forward to her downward spiral next season. Maybe she can take the place of Violet.

I am also a little disappointed in Addison. I am pretty sure that when her therapist told her to change and do something new, he did not mean go to Fiji with a total stranger. Luckily, her sense got the better of her although she lost it again ending up back in bed with Sam even though they both want different things and he even admitted he did not know if he could give her what she wants in the meantime, saying he would try. Why does Addison’s life have to revolve around a man? She loves her job. She wants to have a child. Do those things. Have fun with a man. Just don’t center yourself around them. It was refreshing that at the end, it was Addison who pulled herself together and gave the practice a viable plan to survive. Can we have more of that?

There were other bright spots in the episode. Namoi has Betsy and now Fife, although they are moving to New York and she won’t be on the show anymore. Charlotte is doing well. Not only did she have the guts to pull Amelia’s privileges, but she handled a rape case relatively well and without hitting the bottle or completely falling apart. She even gave Cooper some much needed advice.

I thought this finale of Private Practice was well done. It had the usual flair for dramatic, some nice eye candy (Hi Benjamin Bratt), serious issues involving Violet and the practice, and the cliffhanger involving Pete. Although it was a little light on the actual medical case aspect, I don’t mind it every once in a while. What did you think? Too much drama or a way to tie up some loose ends? What do you think Season 5 has in store for the doctors at Oceanside or whatever it will be called in the future (with Addison owning it which should cause at least some conflict). Tell us in the comments below!

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  • http://twitter.com/wegroove WeGroove

    i don’t know how long the addisam reunion will last, but the terms are clear for everyone involved and i am pretty sure she will adopt or something she told him it’s up to him to love her with a child… I think he wants to make it work so i don’t think that was a wrong move, he is not the center of her universe, he is an important part of it and she made it clear, the baby is coming so get on board or just stay on the deck but the baby train is moving and by the way having sex is actually a way to have a child… Benjamin Bratt’s charater will disturb the #addisam new found peace, but i know they are endgame like mer and der… there is no couple without a breakup and/or a challenge in shondaland…

    • Anonymous

      My memory could be off but it seemed to me Addison told Sam that she was having a baby and that if he could not be on board then he could just be there in the meantime. I dont think that is necessarily clear on anyone’s part especially when Sam said he would “try.”  Although having sex is a way to have a child, since Sam seems totally against it, I would think he uses protection. I guess you never know, right?

      • Mberg

        I’m pretty sure Addison has her last egg preserved since well, it’s her last egg. I think the point of Addison wanting to have a baby with Sam was to have Sam’s sperm injected into the egg and have the fertilized egg put into Addison’s uterus and carry it to term. Then it would be “their” baby. 

  • Toronto

    About half way through this show, it was fantastic to think that this soap opera would actually be ending, with all these overly self-occupied people going their own way.
    It was not to be. As usual, plotlines were speeded up, lines crossed and dubious endings ruled the day. Week after week, each character with the notable exception of Charlotte become less and less likable.

    • Anonymous

      Sometimes I feel that way as well.  Then something will happen that will redeem the character for me for a little while. You are right about Charlotte though. I love her!

  • Belle

    Violet has got to be the dumbest shrink I’ve ever watched on TV. Selfish and stupid. Throughout the whole season, she was just being plain rubbish.
    Love Charlotte on the other hand. And omg, Addison, what were u thinking? Great decision making but I would’ve gone to Fiji.

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