PARENTHOOD “I’m Cooler Than You Think” Review

Parenthood (NBC)--"I'm Cooler than You Think"

PARENTHOOD “I’m Cooler than You Think” Season 2 Episode 3 – Parent-child and spousal disconnect abounds in the “I’m Cooler than You Think” episode of PARENTHOOD. Amber is spending all her time with new wealthy friend Kelsie, so Sarah tries to impress them with a secret Ben Harper concert. Crosby chafes under Renee’s rules re: Jabbar while Julia is full-steam ahead with her baby making plans even though Joel isn’t. Adam yearns for a conversation with his son while Kristina takes over Haddie’s campaign for junior class president.

The Bravermans are apparently trying to raise self-involvement to an art form. Let’s start with Julia. Joel specifically tells her not to mention her new baby plan to anyone, so she immediately goes to Adam. The resulting fight is as angry as I’ve heard Joel, but all Julia seems to hear is that she might not get her baby. Joel eventually agrees to the baby after Julia seems to listen, but I have to wonder if Julia really will make sure there’s room for Joel, begging the question: should baby-making always be a mutual decision or should the primary caregiver have veto power?

Adam sees a close moment between Joel and Sydney and worries he’ll never have that with Max. “He’s my son. I would like him to be interested in me, and if not, I would like him to be trained to be.” I can’t begin to imagine how difficult it would be to raise a child with Asperger’s, but Adam seems unrealistic and even unfair in his wants here, but maybe that’s unavoidable. I do like that he tells Max his feelings were hurt, and his honesty certainly pays off.

Kristina needs an outlet and here she tries to make it Haddie’s campaign for junior class president. “Blue! And glitter!” That’s a whole lot of excitement over signs, and while Haddie should word her complaints better (here’s a tip: never use the word crazy), I can’t blame her for not wanting Kristina anywhere near her campaign. It’s not that I don’t feel for Kristina, but she does go overboard. Way overboard.

Shades of Gilmore Girls–Amber`s spending too much time in the land of the wealthy and Sarah doesn`t like it. Lorelai took Rory and her friends to a Bangles concert; Sarah takes Amber and Kelsie to Ben Harper. Hmmm. Of course, whatever gives me Lauren Graham and Mae Whitman together is okay by me. “It was worth it, though. That was fun. Thank you.” Simple on the page, but that is a gorgeous scene and, along with the blooming joy and gratitude on Sarah’s face, makes up for any contrivance in getting there.

Crosby is trying with both Jabbar and Renee. “Well, your balls will be here when you get back.” Oh, Zeek. I wish Parenthood had chosen a less clichéd route than Renee’s “my husband left and you will, too” declaration. It’s just so predictable. After a confrontation, Renee of course sees the error of her ways and watches baseball with the boys. Again–predictable. Also, why couldn’t we see the church scene? Potential comic gold there, I tell you.

Speaking of predictable–at the end of the episode, each Braverman (except Kristina) gets what s/he wanted all along and it just feels too pat and tacked on. I feel like something is missing from Parenthood, but I can’t quite put my finger on it. It just feels bland to me, I guess–punctuated by some over the top scenes, but bland. I hope it adds layers to its stories soon because I’m getting bored with the rinse, lather, repeat storytelling so far this season. These actors deserve more.

What did you think of “I’m Cooler than You Think?” What hobby could Kristina take up?

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  • magsmcgee

    What is the name of the actress who plays “Renee” Jabbar’s Grandmother?

    • http://www.daemonstv.com/author/michelle/ Michelle

      Her name is Tina Lifford.

  • Cory

    Amazing show and I only feels like it gets better and better! I would love to see more Miles (Lauren Grahams son on the show) it seems like he is never on – and I LOVE Joel – so glad he has more of a story this season but my absolute favorite is the little girl on the show – Sydney. She is so natural and so good in every scene – her and Amber are the scene stealers of the show. I like the endings and I don’t think it is always wrapped up. Last episode it seemed like Joel and Julia were going to have a baby and the show ended – but then it came back into play again this episode and there was a fight and it was dealt with. Not at all a rinse and repeat.

    • http://www.daemonstv.com/author/michelle/ Michelle

      I’m a big fan of Parenthood–I know it may not sound like it from this review, but I’ve seen every episode and I just feel like last season was a bit richer in terms of story and that this season is more skimming issues than delving into them. I’m only tough because I love. :)

      Sydney is one of the most adorable child actors ever, and I agree that it’s great Joel gets an actual storyline this season.

  • S

    I don’t see how Sarah’s scene was shades of Lorelai. Lorelai was never trying to look cool to Rory, their relationship was always solid. She was just helping Rory make new friends. In this case she was trying to bond with her daughter.

    • http://www.daemonstv.com/author/michelle/ Michelle

      True–I was more talking about the common theme where both Lorelei and Sarah-for very different reasons-are intimidated by wealth and that it’s always interesting to me to see Lauren Graham as Sarah put into a somewhat similar situation as she was as Lorelei (dating her daughter’s teacher, for example) and yet she makes it different. I just didn’t say it well. My bad. :)

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